by treegod » Sun Apr 11, 2010 7:49 pm
"Perhaps the single biggest mistake we make when we say No is to start from No. We derive our No from what we are against - the other's demand or behaviour. A Positive No calls on us to do the exact opposite and base our No on what we are for. Instead of starting from No, start from Yes. Root your No in a deeper Yes - a Yes to your core interests and to what truly matters." William Ury, Ph.D. The Power of a Positive No
I think what you are talking about, a drive to avoid, is a negative drive. It is a drive against something, in a way it is an evolutionary rebel. But like any rebel we don't get very far if we don't have something to rebel for. Without that fight for something we soon become exhausted and disillussioned. We need a cause to fight for that gives us a reason (read evolutionary drive) to fight against. For me this means there is a drive more fundamental to avoiding pain/death.
And I think the same thing can apply to evolution [incidentally we are heading into Evolutionary Psychology territory].
I have no fear of being dead, the experience must be like being asleep and before I was born; completely oblivious to my state of being (how I die is a different story). But I am sad at losing life, and any fear I have of death emanates from this experience of valueing life. I have no reason to avoid death other than the fact that I value life. If I didn't value life I wouldn't care about avoiding death.
I propose that the primary drive, before avoiding pain/death, is a pro-life drive. It is for this reason that we want to avoid death. But death would have been one of the first basic experiences of the earliest organisms, so indeed the avoidance of death most certainly has ancient roots but I think they come a fraction after the living of life.
I also propose that any drive for pain and/or pleasure comes after any drives for life or against death, simply because the eariest organisms only had pure drive, and pain and pleasure were later evolutionary adaptions to tell the organism what in the environment to avoid and what they could approach.
Psychologically I believe our primary drive is pro-life based. It is upon this positive drive that other positive for drives and negative against drives are based.